“Only whores choose their own partners”

Honouring Dalits with Blood

Once, I asked writers who had already written on the issue of a Khap Panchayats that what’s the role played by caste in the brutalities of Khap Panchayats i.e. how Dalits suffer in Khap Panchayat system?

They replied there is no such survey or measure available to check out this, Dalits are killed when they marry into another caste but in Haryana the problem is of Khap (marrying within Khap), the other replied Khap Panchayats are against modernization not against Dalit.

I wasn’t satisfied with the answers, so I tried to search and write this article explaining with brief history what led to the increase in the number of Khap Panchayats illegal decrees, fatwas against Dalits.

Khap (group of 84 villages) is a system of social administration and organization in northern India (highly influenctial in Haryana, Rajasthan and western Uttar Pradesh).

Khap Panchayats whole-sole motive/purpose is to work and maintain clan/caste system alive (which they have done with perfection!) and they have always worked as anti-Dalit, anti-women, and anti-modernization.

Sometimes these Khap Panchayats are equated with Kangaroo Courts, which are the sham legal proceedings and which are set-up in order to give the impression of a fair legal process.

Why Landlords Are Furious

Never changing story: A Balmiki woman surveys her ransacked home Jhajjar. Gohana. And now Salwan, where justice by a caste panchayat saw dalit bastis looted and burnt.

Jajmani system under which there was some interdependence between the landlords and Dalit agricultural labors, but after the green revolution (in 1970s) the dependence of Dalits on landlords decreased to some extent. ThisJajmani system was broken up and Dalits got liberated from bonded labors after green revolution.

What troubled more was 73rd amendment (in 1992) of Indian constitution which reserved seats for Dalits in Gram Panchayats, Panchayat Samitis, Zilla Parishids (district councils) according to the Dalit population. Now, it was obvious for so called upper caste landlords to be annoyed with Dalits as Dalits were ready to sit beside them.

How could upper caste people have tolerated this when they have been forcing Dalits to drink their urine in juttis (shoes, slippers) for thousands of years?A Is there any need to discuss about reservations impact on the social status of Dalits? Reservation has always made anxious to so called upper caste people.

Another reason for the increased visibilities of such crimes is the rise in global level education, economic opportunities for everyone (including Dalits) in Haryana, which made possible love/inter-caste/inter-community marriages.

I agree to some extent when people say Khap Panchayats are against modernization as Khap Panchayats banned playing cricket at many places like in district Jind (Haryana) after the poor performance of team India in world cup. Ban hardly remained in force for few weeks afterwards everyone forgot about the ban and cricket become as popular as it was.

In another district, Rohtak (Haryana) Khap Panchayats banned the usage of DJs in marriages giving the reason that it disturbs animals, it was done under animal welfare! They value animals more than human!

In places like Rajasthan, state government has established Rajasthan GAO (cow) Seva commission. In this scheme, special shelters are being created for 6 Lac cows. In addition to this 5 Arab, 24 crores & 85 Lakhs rupees has already been spent by Rajasthan Govts on these cows. These bans were effective for few days only, but the ban on expelling Dalits from village, boycotting Dalits remains effective life long.

Righteous Kill: Stark Realities

It is estimated that every year hundreds of married couples are murdered, are asked to leave the village, are asked to break their marriages and accept each other as brother-sister, are paraded naked, and their faces blackened by their families in order to regain/retain family honour, on the ill-fated instructions of Khap Panchayat. And mostly those suffering in these crimes are Dalits. The decisions about killing, burning homes, raping Dalit women etc are taken by these Khap Panchayats collectively at the open places without any fear.

It’s not always the family of the boy or girl (as promoted by these Khap Panchayat) who kills or orders to kill but the Khap Panchayat members play an active role in executing rapes and murders. If they (boy/girl) escape, their family members are murdered/killed, gang-raped or fined heavily.

In Jhajjar, (Haryana) which is developing fast (coming NTPC thermal power plant and AIIMS-like hospital) but the condition of Dalits is as miserable as was 100s of years ago in the area. Social boycott of Dalits in this area is common thing. Number of cases of caste killing/honour killing are being reported from this area. Recently, an upper caste girl tried to marry a lower-caste boy, the girl’s sister was helping in this. Both the girls were found dead in next day.

In Dadri, District Bhiwani of Haryana caste panchayat ordered boycott of the newlywed couple, ordered them to escape from village and their families were fined heavily. Two years back in district Kaithal (Haryana) a couple was killed and their bodies were thrown in river on the orders of these Caste Panchayats, in another case, a couple was killed and their dead bodies were kept in front of everyone in village so that everyone can learn a lesson from this.

All these acts of Khap Panchayats are not limited to Haryana only, you can see the impact of Khap Panchayats in Uttar Pradesh, Madhya Pradesh and Punjab also. Recently, in district Muzaffarpur of Uttar Pradesh a women was raped by her father in law and Khap Panchayat ordered she should accept her husband as a son.

In another district Saharanpur, a 40 year old women was paraded naked in the village and Khap Panchayat ordered the rape of her 17 year old daughter and people acted on the same lines. Police did not even register the case. In Meerut district, the same almost happened when a inter-caste marriage happened.

Caste Panchayats have outgrown their function as local dispensers of justice. Today, they are epitomes of cruelty. (Photo Credit: Outlook India)

After two days of International Human Rights Day, on 12th December, 2009 while commuting death sentences of two persons involved in honour killings Supreme Court accepted caste as a stark reality in honour killings and said The caste is such a concept that grips a person even before his birth and does not leave him even after his death the vicious grip of the caste, community, religion, though totally unjustified, is a stark reality.

On the same day (12 December, 2009) another landmark judgment came from Judicial Magistrate, (though after 11 years of case proceedings!) which imposed fine on Khap Panchayat for issuing a fatwa excommunicating a person from the Khap and calling for his social boycott. This is the first time that any court in Haryana has penalized a Khap Panchayat.

In another news on 25November, 2009 The International Jat Intellectual Meet calls for drive against honour killings. I seriously doubt the goodwill intentions of these decisions as this can be just to show the world that we are concerned about humanity/mankind while celebrating International Human Rights Day.

Nothing happens to people like Mahendra Singh Tikait, farmer leader in western Uttar Pradesh when speaking on behalf of Khap Panchayats he makes comments like only whores chose their own partners. Why no action was taken against him, who degraded the whole of women society?

Denying Constitution, Implementing Manusmriti

Article 13(1) and 13(2) of Constitution deals with the Laws inconsistent with or in derogation of the fundamental rights and it is clearly written under Article 13(1) All laws in force in the territory of India immediately before the commencement of this Constitution, in so far as they are inconsistent with the provisions of this Part, shall, to the extent of such inconsistency, be void.  and

Article 13(3a) law includes any Ordinance, order, bye-law, rule, regulation, notification, custom or usage having in the territory of India the force of law.

Though everything is written so plainly in the Constitution of India about the equal rights for everyone, irrespective of religion, caste, color, creed, etc; even today after 60 years of Independence, Khap Panchayat are greatly influential and are capable of petrifying people in the northern region. By keeping Khap Panchayats alive aren’t Governments trying to make Manu smile?

On The Part of Governments and Dalits

Much has been written and said about the issue of Khap Panchayats by intellectuals and academicians but there has always been a lack of any initiative to dissolve Khap Panchayats or call them illegal on the part of the Government. Not even a single leader has ever stood against, instead many local leaders of congress and other parties have glorified acts of Khap Panchayat this cruel system, which may be because of Governments own petty political reasons.

Another thing, why all these killings are clubbed together in the list of murders, if we can have separate laws for Sati and Dowry then why can’t we have separate special laws to handle crimes by Khap Panchayats?

Lack of representation of Dalits in police and print media is also a severe problem. Further, serious issue is of divisions among Dalits and lack of able Dalit leadership in the region, people in the name of Dr Ambedkar are fighting to prove that they are real Karva Pullers of Dr Ambedkar, but reality lies somewhere else!

There is a strong need of active participation of everyone including NGOs, police, Panchayat bodies and serious/strong laws (not merely paper tigers!) against the crimes of Khap Panchayat.

P.S.: I am grateful to Advocate Dr S L Virdi, being my source of inspiration, encouragement and whose article on the same issue published in Punjabi magazine Begampura Saher was helpful for fulfilling my quest.

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Filed under Caste Discrimination, Casteism, Dalit-Bahujans, Equal Rights

2 responses to ““Only whores choose their own partners”

  1. jalwan

    dear pardeep very good write up.kindly keep up your efforts of enlightment for the mindset society. everybody understands that -in mankind nobody is superior or inferior, all strike together like brothers for glory n prowess(rig ved 5:60:5) . baba saheb n lac of followers brunt manusmarti which is discriminatery n against huminity n not brunt any ved though purush sukta is of later on introduced by brahman caste cleverly taking own caste name from brahma b/o vishnu n shiv all three s/o durga n sadashiva (bhagwat purana n rampal maharaj vedeos) both r brother n sister . parmatma also called parmabrahman- par brahman-brahman also called sadashiv / niranjan n durga/ shakti were created. parmatma from satlok sent them to 21 brahmands given to him. every livinng has self/soul/atma/brahm-brahman which on realization concerned soul is known as brahman n on his death soul attains moksha rests in piece in satlok. as suka realised self /soul/atman/brahman through his guru janak only such person who realised self r brahman nobody else. priests by corruption malighned others too in turning them in favour placing in order – 1 brahman 2 akshtrya -low 3 vaish lower 4 sudra -lowest — a) bc b) sc/st as as none liked to be called low always disunity n declne of hinduism by invations n covertions to budhism , jainism , islam sikhism. till recently backward castes khati -jangda baman lohar -visvakarma sonar ahir gujar jat etc were not intersted calling themselves backward castes but on education n understannding true colors/varnas they r standing in long que outside the office of officer irrespetive of caste in order to get backward caste certificate. it is highly non-scientific calling sudra son from brahman female as chandal though half brahman lower then his another son from akhtriya female called khatri who is half akshtriya . brahman could marry -in all varna colors–brahman akshtriya vaish sudra his property distribution shall — one son from each wife, 1st son brahman wife- 4shares, 2nd akshtriya wife-3shares 3rd son vaish wife-2shares and 4th son sudra wife 1shrare thus axcept untouchable though in nights touchable/ devdasis dalits sc/st brahmanism was not oppsed however later on saint namdev sahuji maharaj etc were highly agaist castism in 60’s some caste 8o’s more 90’s still more n 2000’s all 85% sudra of india r wake up to claim their due as earlier negligegble population was enjoing in name of caste keeping others illetrate n fighting themselves which bharat is still desired by some not india though both r same they do not recall jambudvip of aboriginal invaded by aryan, turk,hun, sak, arab,mangol scythans etc etc whosoever is enjoying previleges shall not unless thrown out by ability supported by law . recently in delhi election no bsp mla but in fact aap is becoz of bsp voters had these gone to bjp it could 45 mla if wouldhave gone to congress that could get 45 mla so dalits r shaker maker now. sc/st not recorded if it was minimum 15 mla seats should have been theirs but r 12 out of which 2 to bjp n only 1mla from congress which the trend throught the country. since no significant option bjp has come up in 4 states. khap panchayats r nothing but they r alive like hypocrates like hooda / navin jindal should’t be shunted out like dogs/cat ? y not all dalits like delhi bring aap to correct the discrimation of khap panchayats u p / bihar is already in radar of dalits. ill /corrutted officers in no time shall get correctd . education , unity struggle determinatin n concentration requared which tablat r prepared by great sons like you. thanks for ur efforts


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